Is This You?
You're a good person: kind, loving & caring, always giving but rarely receiving, putting others first, feeling their emotions as though they were your own, but you don't feel worthy of love.
Your empathic nature causes you to be too forgiving of partners. You make excuses for their bad behaviour, think you can "fix" them and end up in toxic, one-sided or co-dependent relationships with people who treat you badly and will never take responsibility for sorting out their own issues.
When you're in a relationship you have a hard time believing that you're good enough. You need constant reassurance and live in fear that they'll find someone better.
You can become clingy, needy and emotionally dependent on your partner, only feeling good about yourself when you're together and allowing the relationship to become your identity. You worry, text constantly and imagine that they must be cheating when they're out with other people.
You're an over-apologiser and a people-pleaser. You're uncomfortable with negative emotions and conflict so you work hard to justify everything you do and say, trying to keep your partner happy without concern for your own feelings.
You choose partners who are fundamentally incompatible or emotionally unavailable.
You're unable to say NO, communicate your needs and set boundaries to ensure that your relationships are safe, supportive and respectful.
What would your life look like if you..?
Were able to set clear boundaries and STICK to them?
Say NO and mean it, without feeling guilty or backing down to keep the peace?
Were able to walk away from unhealthy relationships with the confidence to know you deserve better?
Were happy to be single for now while you concentrate on creating an awesome life for yourself?
Were able to communicate your needs, desires and feelings in a positive way?
Could handle criticism without taking it personally?
Didn't worry excessively about what others think?
Believed that you are worthy of the very best that life has to offer?
Had the confidence to step out of your comfort zone, challenge yourself and be open to change?
Could build a truly empowering relationship based on trust, intimacy, communication and honesty?
You have a choice!
Do you want to carry on as you are, self-sabotaging every time you have a chance of happiness?
Hoping that by some miracle the right person will come along and finally make you feel good about yourself?
Resigning yourself to either a lifetime alone, or a lifetime of substandard relationships that leave you feeling unsupported, unsafe and insecure?
Or is it time to take control of your life?
Have rock solid confidence and self esteem?
Choose the HEALTHY, EMPOWERING relationship you DESERVE?
Are you ready?
Book your FREE 45-minute discovery call and take the first step!
“I can’t think of any better representation of beauty than someone who is unafraid to be herself.”